Listen to this episode to learn how to create authentic intimacy through dating by incrementally getting to know someone and opening up safely. We’ve discussed what to do if you want be in a relationship or improve your relationship. “If you want to move, start packing.” How to stop wanting and longing, and instead get into action to create what you’ve always wanted. I've also asked Paul “What do women need to know to improve their relationship with dear men in their life”.   Listen to this episode to get the answer! About Paul Paul’s commitment to making dating joyful, respectful, expansive and consensual comes from extensive training in interpersonal relations — from Nonviolent Communication to the Wheel of Consent, from Landmark Education to Human Awareness International, from Body Electric to ISTA/Tantra. For years, Paul co-facilitated the Seattle Men’s Wisdom Council, working with hundreds of men every month.  In the years since his divorce, he has dated dozens of women – mostly first dates which didn’t yield sufficient chemistry to go further, yet helped him create the Authintimacy technique he now teaches that manifested 3 amazing, multi-year relationships. Paul initially studied computer science and was a Type A personality.  Over the years, however, he learned and applied emotional intelligence to his personal relationships which changed how he connected for the better – notably in dating and love! After a business career including roles as Marketing VP for a publicly traded software company and President of the Institute of Management Consultants [Seattle Chapter] Paul chose to refocus his energies and start Pandemic.Love in 2021. pandemic.love/4biggies for the free PDF booklet: "The Four Big Online Dating Mistakes of Spiritual Singles Over 40 in 2022".www.pandemic.love/discussion Singles Salon discussion on Facebookhttp://instagram.com/pandemc.love http://www.tiktok.com/@pandemic.love  Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. Visit our website at www.radiantwoman.co.nz/quiz2 to join the Radiant Woman movement. Discover how sexually empowered you are, the barriers holding you back and your unique path to soul-fulfilling sexual intimacy, take this quiz www.radiantwoman.co.nz/quiz2 Done with feeling sexually dissatisfied? Watch my free class to discover your unique path to feeling free, sexy & attractive, and enjoying a soul-fulfilling sexual intimacy >>  www.radiantwoman.co.nz/class