Folks! Audrey is out this week due to Holidays but Dono is holding it down and we're got an excellent guest this week, Rory Uphold from Crimes of the Heart podcast! We chat about our shows and religious shame around sex, hear an excellent embarrassing relationship story and then it's question time:   How to support a depressed partner when their material conditions are bad and out of their control? | Is that actually sugaring or just a relationship with a weird power dynamic? | How to support a friend when you're both dealing with mental health struggles?   Thanks again to Rory for coming on the show! Check out her podcast Crimes of the Heart it's excellent and follow her on Insta @icouldbeblonder   RFTB LIVE SHOW! Saturday, January 20th at The Hideout in sunny Chicago! Get tickets here we'd love to see you: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago   And finally thank you for listening! You can support us and get a bonus episode each week, discord access, a sticker, and more at patreon.com/rftb