➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it's NEVER enough to make your partner happy? Or you might be pleasing them at your own expense, and at some point you wonder “what about me?” If this is your reality, and you feel resentment bubbling up…let me be the one to tell you: NO, you're not crazy!! There’s a predictable pattern that CAUSES resentment! Until you see it, resentment can keep sneaking into your relationship, even when people have the best intentions. In a long-term relationship… I KNOW you’ve felt the INFURIATING feeling of sacrificing just to please someone else only to wind up in a situation where they are still unhappy! Unlike everything you’ve been taught… PLEASING others in relationship does NOT fix things and it usually BACKFIRES! This is a predictable pattern with a predictable outcome.  In this episode, I’m going to REVEAL the predictable pattern that you UNKNOWINGLY keep falling into! There is a way to BUILD UP your relationship, without pleasing, without compromise and without settling for things you aren’t happy with! Let’s dive in! — Key Points Discussed: The predictable pattern loop of pleasing (00:00) In a long-term relationship and STILL pleasing? Here’s what to do instead (03:26) A real-life example of this strategy applied: student’s example (09:25) Final words (14:58) — Additional Links & Resources: 🎧 Listen to the explanation about trigger boomerang loops here: https://martinopodcast.com/podcast/02-can-this-unusual-cesar-millan-tactic-help-your-relationship/ 🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com 👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com  👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c  👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt 👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com — We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world! Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home! Let’s connect:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/ — We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately.