My approach is the 3C approach to saving your marriage.  The 3C's are C-onnect, C-hange, and C-reate.  Connect with your spouse.  Change yourself.  Create a new path. The first two may be more obvious... but still missed by many people.  Relationships are grown by connection, and harmed by a lack of connection.  We grow personally, when we change... and stagnate when we don't.  But that path to create.  Where to?? I recently got an email that asked just that:  "What is the path I am building?  Where to??" While I thought I had been clear with that, the email is a reminder that perhaps I had not been so clear. So, let me be clear.  You are creating a new path... building a path... to WE. This is the deep and profound understanding that you and your spouse are becoming a unit, a team.  A WE.  As in, "We are in this together," "We are a team," "We stand together through thick and thin." But, since I want to be super-clear about this, I thought I would do a deep-dive in this episode of my podcast. You can listen below.   RELATED RESOURCES: The Immutable Laws of Living Book:  3 Simple Steps to Saving Your Marriage Save The Marriage System