In this episode, Daniel and Christina Seong discuss cosmetic surgeries prevalent within the Asian community, focusing on eyelid procedures often performed for medical reasons. Christina shares her experiences with eyelid and breast augmentation surgeries, addressing societal pressures. Daniel considers eyelid surgery but has yet to undergo any procedures. They delve into popular surgeries like BBL, liposuction, and rhinoplasty while stressing self-authenticity and honesty. Cultural insights include personal anecdotes about subtle cosmetic changes and the negative impacts of weight-related comments in Korea. They reflect on the enduring impact of September 11, touching on their personal experiences and the broader national remembrance. Christina encourages listeners to rate and review the podcast. The episode balances personal narratives with broader societal observations, concluding with gratitude towards each other and their audience. 3 Key Episode Takeaways 1. Diverse Reasons for Eyelid Surgery: Eyelid surgeries in the Asian community can stem from both cosmetic desires and medical needs. For example, Christina's uncle had eyelid surgery at 80 to prevent his eyelashes from scratching his eyeballs. This underscores the complexity and multifaceted motivations behind such procedures. 2. Cultural Impact on Cosmetic Surgery Choices: The episode delves into how societal pressures and cultural practices, like the constant commentary on weight and appearance in Korea, can drive individuals toward cosmetic surgeries. Christina openly discusses her own experiences with breast augmentation, reflecting on how societal expectations and personal self-esteem issues influence these decisions. 3. Authenticity and Communication in Relationships: Christina and Daniel stress the importance of authenticity and open communication throughout the episode. They advocate for living life on one's own terms and maintaining honesty in relationships. Daniel highlights the significance of allowing partners to pursue their personal choices, framing it as an essential investment in the health of their relationship. Show Overview 01:00   Witness panics after seeing news of 9/11 attack.05:54   9/11 aftermath: videos, cancer from dust, surreal stories.08:43   Breast augmentation influenced by childhood teasing and ideals.11:05    Excessive enhancements can attract unwanted negative attention.15:58   Korea popular for discreet plastic surgery tourism.17:17    Mom tugged my nose; now it looks different.22:18.  Eyelid surgery popular among Asian high schoolers.24:56  BBL surgeries rarely look natural in public.27:44  Eye surgery later; others' opinions don't matter.