“My husband, unfortunately, refused to go treatment for SA.
I’m listening to the episode with Dr Eddie and he and Dr Rob are talking about emotionally intimacy. It brought forth a memory of a conversation with my husband ( actually more than one) when I asked him to talk to me more, tell me what’s going on in his life, just be closer to me. His answer to me was “ I’m not going to talk with you like I’m one of your girlfriends “. I didn’t know what he meant but now -aha- my friends and I are emotionally intimate. We talk about life, feelings, disappointments. We support each other and are trustworthy. My husband can’t do that. I wish I would have seen this as a RED FLAG. The first time he said this to me was before marriage and the last time was after the SA discovery.
Sad really, he threw away his family because he couldn’t commit to the journey of addressing his intimacy disorder.
But we know how these guys roll- he will begin a new relationship, if he already hasn’t , and the cycle will begin again. If the women is healthier than I was years ago, she will run for the hills.”
Dmytexas via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/27/22