Feeling safe with your partner is something that allows for one to feel they can do anything sexually.  It welcomes and escorts vulnerability into our spaces.  We worry so much about “stuff” that has no place in our quarters. “What will people think”, “What if I look stupid”, “What if I’m not good”. This thinking blocks and/or destroys any potential of sexual engagements in which both parties are present. Create a safe place where your partner can be who they are, knowing it’s totally welcomed and appreciated.