Episodes
We discuss: what we want from a sex toy; the best equipment for pegging; having the confidence to speak up when a partner isn’t doing something the way you like it; the right and wrong ways to give feedback; how non-mongamists have been hooking up during lockdown; why people have such a strong opinion - both positive and negative - about facials; when animals interrupt sex. Topics: the toy you’ve used the most, giving feedback, where has spunk hit you?
Published 08/31/20
We discuss: fantasising about people in our lives during masturbation; saying the wrong person’s name during sex; the conversations about sex between parents and children; sex and the menopause; feeling good about yourself after giving a b*****b; why routine sex isn’t necessarily a bad thing; feeling sensitive about the appearance of your vagina. Topics: fantasising about someone else during sex, a b*****b you’re proud of, routine sex.
Published 08/24/20
We discuss: how Rebecca kept track of her clients when she was an escort; why it’s ok if you can’t remember their name the next morning; more unusual places people have had wanks; nipple orgasms. Topics: sex with someone whose name you can’t remember, teenage celebrity crushes, yoni eggs.
Published 08/17/20
We discuss: how much we choose to share about our sex lives; visiting strip clubs as a couple; why you can give the c**t too much attention; stories from men who have been with other men; period sex; boob play; why kissing is important. Topics: how much do you tell your friends? How much do you like your c**t touched? Sex when someone else was in the room. Your favourite part of foreplay.
Published 08/10/20
We discuss: the damage we’ve caused during sex; being attracted to a person’s scent; being safe during casual sex; learning to kiss well; our first kisses; getting fingered in nightclubs. Topics: what have you broken during sex? Sweat, what makes a great kiss? What have you got up to in a nightclub?
Published 08/03/20
We discuss: when you can’t even wait to get your clothes off; the pleasures of dry humping; the animalistic sex that can follow an argument; the emotions you can experience during a BDSM scene; how to find a third person for a threesome; knowing when someone is pressuring you for sex; using the tip of a penis to tease you; the power of a compliment. Topics: sex with clothes on, angry sex, just the tip, the nicest thing someone has said about your body.
Published 07/27/20
We discuss: the times when we’ve needed to m********e no matter where we were; how a buttplug can transform your sexual experience; Zoom sex clubs; choosing to abstain from sex; self slut-shaming; feeling under pressure to get in a relationship. Plus we hear from Sexpots listeners about their sex lives during lockdown. Topics: the strangest place you’ve had a wank, buttplugs, your driest spell.
Published 07/20/20
We discuss: the value of an electric toothbrush as a vibrator; getting satisfaction from giving pleasure; how you don’t need penetration to have an amazing experience; eating creampies; an explanation of docking from someone with experience. Plus we’re joined by Cate from the Swinging Downunder podcast to tell us about her first-hand experience at hotwifing. Topics: a great experience that didn’t involve penetration, morning sex, hotwifing.
Published 07/13/20
We discuss: why you should try a footjob even if you’re not into feet; why aftercare goes hand in hand with BDSM; throwing yourself into meaningless sex after a breakup; why it’s important to talk about your fantasies even if you don’t want to act them out; making a list of places you want to have sex in. Topics: footjobs, aftercare, sharing fantasies.
Published 07/06/20
We discuss: why we think 69s are overrated; how power play can work outside of your sex life; being scared by your own fantasies around consensual non-consent; sleep sex; the importance of communication when exploring your more extreme fantasies; the amount of places you can have sex in a pub; sex in the rain. Topics: 69, power play, quickies.
Published 06/29/20
We discuss: why stockings and suspenders are a faff; finding sexy underwear for a plus-size body; grieving the end of a relationship; being attracted to a person irrespective of their gender; the (short term) case for an arrogant prick; how the weather can affect your level of horn; when porn consumption gets to unhealthy levels. Topics: stockings and suspenders, sex with someone of the same gender, porn consumption.
Published 06/22/20
We discuss: the attraction of having sex in a cemetary; car sex; nightclub fingering; having the confidence to share your partner with another; our admiration for ethical non-monogamists; being (consensually) made to stay silent during sex; sex at work; butt plugs. Topics: most unusual location, licking balls, how loud do you get?
Published 06/15/20
We discuss: where we like to be touched, other than the obvious; the different types of sex swing; the first porn we watched; getting balls inside a pussy; couples visiting lap dancing clubs together; male strippers; what it’s like to work in a peep show. Topics: unusual erogenous zones, did the porn you watched when younger shape your taste? Lap dancing clubs.
Published 06/08/20
We discuss: getting involved with people you shouldn’t; sex when we lived at home; the varying levels of rough sex; being dominated; spanking versus slapping; young love. Topics: getting interrupted, rough sex, first love, pet names for your bits.
Published 06/01/20
We discuss: how to know when to move from texting to sexting; our biggest turns offs with new partners; the one key to maintaining your sex life in a long term relationship; keeping it steamy during lockdown; feeling hornier in self-isolation; horny TV and films. Topics: sexting etiquette, your best al fresco sex, keeping it fresh, the most turned on you’ve been at a non-porn film.
Published 05/25/20
We discuss: the methods for having an anal orgasm; preparation for anal; the occasional unfortunate consequences of anal; reminiscing about the path not chosen; getting friend-zoned; tasting your own juices. Topics: anal orgasms, the hardest you’ve made yourself cum, the one that got away, sexual fluids.
Published 05/18/20
It’s our first birthday! We discuss: going the extra mile for a partner’s birthday or other special occasion; how the lockdown has affected our sex lives; using Sex Cams; what happens at a rope bondage (Shibari) class; hands free tit wanks and using a vibrator with no hands; unintentional flirting. Topics: birthday sex, lockdown lovelife, what you have tried for the first time in the last year, flirting.
Published 05/11/20
We discuss: hitting the right pleasure points in a handjob; learning how a partner likes their handjobs; prostate play; using toys on a cock; seeing similarities in our exes; finding one night stands unsatisfying; living with herpes; sex with a disability; understanding a partner’s attraction to humiliation. Topics: your handjob technique, do you have a type? Rebound sex, humiliation.
Published 05/04/20
We discuss: having nipple orgasms; wanting a partner who appreciates your boobs; the power of sex to get over an ex; feeling too ashamed to have sex on the first date; the ways people are getting off in self-isolation; the best implement for leaving your mark; our guide to talking dirty; being enthusiastic when giving oral. Topics: nipples, sex on the first date, floggers, what made somebody good at going down on you?
Published 04/27/20
We discuss: how facial hair can aid your sex life; our fluctuating sex drives; knowing when you’ve conceived; our love of legs; the first time you have sex after giving birth or having a miscarriage; using your nails to show your passion. Topics: facial hair, sex drive, sex after pregnancy, scratching.
Published 04/20/20
We discuss: the ways alcohol can positively and negatively affect your sex life; the varying levels of horniness when you’re pregnant; being pregnant and single; keeping a memento from a partner; feeling secure in your relationship; being honest when you feel jealous; feeling exposed when you’re on top. Topics: Drunk sex, sex while pregnant, jealousy, going on top.
Published 04/13/20
We discuss: why the missionary position is underrated; the excitement of the buildup to sex; why we’re masturbating instead of having meetings; the super hot story from a listener who had sex with a work colleague; being proud of the marks you receive from a partner; more love for men in women’s underwear. Plus you can hear Bitsy and Rebecca’s reaction when Katy reveals the 17 inch dildo Bondara.co.uk have sent them! Topics: Our favourite position, teasing, sex at work, oral mishaps.
Published 04/06/20
We discuss: the power of telling someone you’re not wearing any pants; our desire to try a f*****g machine; really big dildos; dealing with jealousy when swapping partners; struggling to get the best out of 69s; regretting sharing photos and videos; the difference between sexual and non-sexual chemistry. Topics: No knickers, sex toys or apparatus you’d like to try, swapping, chemistry.
Published 03/30/20
We discuss: the varying rules of spin the bottle; how sex games can help you if you’re low in confidence; why you have to see the beauty in yourself; discovering your clitoris for the first time; the turn ons of a cock cage from a Domme’s perspective; how a threesome can get really awkward. Topics: Sex games, how your body image affects your sex life, the c**t, a fantasy that didn’t live up to expectations.
Published 03/23/20
We discuss: the pleasures in using toys on a penis; the new generation of sex toys; jealousy when a toy is introduced to a relationship; why lube makes everything better; the importance of STI testing and living with an STI; listener stories about the funniest thing said or heard during sex; getting turned on by fancy dress. Topics: Using toys with a partner, lube, STIs, unusual dress up requests.
Published 03/16/20