What's holding you back from embracing your true self? This week, we're joined by Ben Carlton, aka Brother Ben, author of "I'm Black, I'm a Minister, and I'm Gay." Together, we dive into a journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Explore the power of being true to yourself and navigating challenges on your own terms. Discover how the universe responds to your authentic intentions and how self-reflection shapes your relationships. Other topics discussed are:  It takes you longer because you’re doing it with integrity  Everything is not for you  It's not taking you longer its taking you exactly how long its supposed to take you  You are not competing against others you are competing with yourself  The people you attract are a mirror of yourself  I was around people who didn't like me because I don't like myself  Strong on the outside and in shambles in the inside  Being just happy enough  An*l play don't make you gay  Where can you find queerness in your chart  Looking for advertising oppurtunities? DM us "ADVERTISE" on Instagram @Semedia.group Or Email us at [email protected] for more information  Check out Patreon for more BONUS CONTENT and weekly discussions. Get Your Thigh High Socks HERE! Use code NJASP at checkout for 15% off  www.thesexualessentials.com Connect with Samia  IG: @Miabuggzy @notjustanothersexpod  Connect with our Guest Ben Carton  IG: @ibencarlton blacklovewins.com I’m Black, I’m a Minister, and I’m Gay