“I don’t know how to describe my feelings towards this podcast. At first I was intrigued. Then I give it a hate-listen. Then its entertaining. I don’t know.
What I do know is that the people have it all wrong. Yes, you’re absolutely entitled to make the changes you need to feel happy, empowered, and fulfilled. But you need to communicate with your partner. If you don’t want to be monogamous, then discuss that with your partner. If it’s a need for you, and your partner refuses, you absolutely have the ability to end the relationship and do you. But the thing is, relationships have agreed-upon rules. Each relationship is different.
During one episode, a guest said something to the effect of “you deserve great sex, and as long as you’re safe and not hurting anyone, why not?” I couldn’t agree more. But when you are in a relationship that is monogamous, you ARE hurting someone. You’re hurting your partner you supposedly love. Potentially full on traumatizing them.
So please stop glorifying this.”
hokiecmo via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/12/23