Comedian Graham Kay joins Erica Spera to explain why he bailed as a wedding date 5 years ago, some shooting his shot stories, and they debate some TikTok dating advice.  Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off www.SunsetLakeCBD.com Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Graham kay: https://www.instagram.com/mrgrahamkay // Podcast:...

Comedian Jourdain Fisher comes back on the podcast to join Erica Spera in debating some dating advice from TikTok. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot  Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Jourdain Fisher: https://www.instagram.com/jfishercomedy // Podcast:...

Comedian Mark Normand joins Erica Spera to talk about shooting his shot, what to say when your man can't get it up, if "the box theory" is true, how to DM slide,  what really catches a man's attention, and why you need to give your partner space. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here:...

Comedian Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex Podcast) joins Erica Spera to talk about lesbian dating rules, why more gay women need to shoot their shot, why moving too fast can end your relationship and for some "Gay Woman's Opinion" questions. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here:...

Friend of the podcast Stephanie Andrew joins Erica Spera to talk about leaving her midwestern life for the big city, being engaged at 18 to an older man, religious trauma, going on a date with a homeless man, why live mixers are better than dating apps, and what she's learned in grad school to help you find the right therapist. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes:...

Comedian Phil Duckett joins Erica Spera to debate the article "16 Sex Tips for Women" to figure out what really makes someone good in bed. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview.   Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off www.SunsetLakeCBD.com Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Phil Duckett: https://www.instagram.com/funnyphilduck...

Comedian Andrea Allan joins Erica Spera to talk about getting sober, how sobriety changed her dating life, navigating bipolar disorder, ALANON, sober dating app tips and tricks, the downfalls of a scarcity mindset, dating mistakes, and much more.  Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Andrea Allan: https://www.instagram.com/andreacomedy69 //...

Comedian Christian Jackson joins Erica Spera to teach her "How to Hoe". They talk about if kegels really work, how to know if you can "hoe", why having faith makes you a better hoe, and how being married changed Christiana's perspective on dating. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Christiana Jackson: https://www.instagram.com/incomparablemsc...

Comedian Raanan Hershberg joins Erica Spera to talk about dating someone with herpes for the first time, what made him feel comfortable with it, why he thinks the stigma should be eliminated, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Checkout Rannan's new stand up special free on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-L5tTb7TCW8  Follow us on...

Dating coach Finding Mr. Height (Ali Jackson) joins Erica Spera to talk all about shooting her shot. The two share some cringe worthy attempts at trying to get men's attention, games they used to play, "subtle" moves they've made, and how some methods worked while others blew up in their face. Ali also shares what keeps her motivated in the dating game and why being in a relationship can be much worse than being alone. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview. Promo Code:...

Comedians Chris Cheney and Rob Haze join Erica Spera to talk about "Fifteen Ways to Keep The Romance Alive in Relationships; According to Men" chapter of the book "Why Men Love Bitches". The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Pokemon Expo Free...

Comedian and Riley Lassin joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about Vaginismus and PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome); what signs her gyno missed, how she couldn't even wear a tampon without experiencing pain, going to physical therapy for her vagina, losing her hair, wearing wigs, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes...

Comedian and writer Dan Perlman (Flatbush Misdemeanors) joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about going to couples therapy, regular therapy, what makes a good therapist, switching to an open relationship, why you should be the "bad guy", if mysterious women are more attractive, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes...

Comedian Dustin Nickerson joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about getting married to his high school sweetheart, keeping his kids off social media, what made him get a vasectomy, why you shouldn't visit your family during the holidays, the real marriage fights, his book about marriage, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. PROMO CODE: SGS20 for 20% off Sunsetlakecbd.com  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes:...

Mike Coscarelli joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about how to slide into someone's DMs, the pros of getting on Lexapro, if thirst traps really work, why women should go to more sporting events, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here:...

Comedian Jon Laster joins Erica Spera this week for a funny and insightful conversation all about how men think in relationships. Why are men terrified of weddings? What "freedom" do men need in relationships? What "privileges" being a college athlete meant with dating, Why you can't change a man, and much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview.    Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full...

Comedian Adam Mamawala joins Erica Spera to talk all about DIVORCE! They discuss; how long the process takes, what helped him get through it, when he knew he was ready to date again, what you should and shouldn't say to someone going through a divorce, and much more. The second half of the episode is filled with "Man's Opinion" all about saying "I love you". The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes:...

Dee Guerreros joins Erica Spera to talk about the pressures of being the breadwinner when her husband lost his job, what the keys are to a happy marriage, why couples tend to stop courting each other, and some photography and self care tips.  PROMO CODE: SGS20 for 20% off Sunsetlakecbd.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here:...

Rachel Wright (and one of her partners) joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about their Polyamorous Quad of 4; How do you raise kids in a polyamorous relationship? Is polyamory technically cheating? Can you ever Veto someone your partner wants to sleep with? How do you handle jealousy? and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full...

Comedian Jeff Wright joins Erica Spera this week to talk about; Do Men ever like their girlfriend's friends? What are the "stages" of dating? How long does it take a guy who's interested to ask you out? How has life changed since becoming "TikTok Famous"? and much more. We finish the episode playing the viral "Scale of 1-10 Game" and an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full...

Comedian Jourdain Fisher joins Erica Spera this week for an exclusive Patreon Preview. The second half of this episode is available on Patreon only, join here for extra episodes, discounts, giveaways and NSFW content.  Join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us: Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Jourdain Fisher: instagram.com/jfishercomedy //...

Comedian Emma Willmann joins Erica Spera this week to talk about; What is the real reason people cheat on their partners? Why ADHD people are more likely to cheat? Where is the line in lesbian friendships? Why are lesbians friends with their exes more often than straight people? and much more. We finish the episode with Emma sharing one of her "shooting his shot" moves and an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes:...

Andrew Licout joins Erica Spera this week to answer all your questions. Could you see yourself in an open relationship? Do men compare you to your ex? How should you Shoot Your Shot? What are the top 3 qualities men value in women? and much more. We finish the episode with Andrew sharing one of his "shooting his shot" stories and an exclusive Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full...

Comedian Anthony DeVito joins Erica Spera this week to share one of the craziest cheating stories we've ever heard. They also talk about first kiss nightmares, why a nice guy isn't necessarily the right guy, if you should tell someone they're being cheated on, and why Anthony likes that his partner is territorial. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview & make sure you check out Anthony's new stand up special on YouTube called "Brain Noise"!   Join the Patreon to support the...

Comedian (and new Dad) Yannis Pappas joins Erica Spera this week to debate the book "101 Things your Dad never told you about Men". They discuss the real reason for why men lie, why time alone is important, how your sex life changes after a baby, why you should pretend to like the gift your partner buys you, what really makes your "husband" happy, and much more! The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes:...