We live in the age of social media, which means, it’s hard not to compare every aspect of our lives, our bodies, with others, including how our g******s look. Although many of us feel shame in talking about our g******s, when we’re asked to think about what a “normal” vulva looks like, we have an image in our minds: small, pink, hairless, tucked in... In reality, that couldn’t be further from the truth. So why is there so much shame we experience in talking about our g******s, and how do we battle the need to have “normal” looking parts?