Episodes
Our first health segment! Have you ever wondered about penises? Like… what’s really up with penises? Adam and Cole get very lucky this week when they receive a visit from Los Angeles based urologist and CEO/co-founder of Popstar Labs, Dr Josh Gonzalez. In this episode, the boys get real deep with Dr Gonzalez, who shares his extensive knowledge about penile health, anatomy, enhancement and obsession, and all the things they could entail. He also plugs his specialty product, Popstar, which has...
Published 04/12/23
Strap in, folks. Our special guest this week is the prince of naughty and nice, the sexy and talented Devin Franco. Devin shares with Adam and Cole about his religious upbringing in rural New Mexico, takes them on a tour of the porn that inspired his journey, including an enlightened take on the ins and outs of fisting and bondage, and tells stories about his path from popular performer to budding director. Sorry moms. Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
Published 03/29/23
In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up over the latest adventures in the world of content creation, including Cole’s 20-man excursion to the desert, which prompts the boys to discuss something very important - preparation! Yes everyone, it’s the douching episode. There’s no one way to do it, everybody does it, and we all have stories. How it works, when it doesn’t, and all the nitty and (hopefully not so) gritty. Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
Published 03/15/23
This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by dom top superstar Wade Wolfgar, who gives the boys a glimpse into the many elements that have helped him compose his brand. From growing up in Calgary, to the winding road toward sex work and adult films, to his very unique delivery in his videos, to his propensity for older men; all of this rounds out to a frank discussion about the power dynamics that sometimes play out in gay sex and porn, and how the terminology to describe this interplay has...
Published 03/01/23
In this episode, Adam and Cole welcome decorated gay porn veteran Steve Cruz, who shares with us the twists and turns of his unique journey in the world of gay adult films. Starting out at the top as a star performer at Raging Stallion Studios, Cruz spent over four years in front of the camera before making the permanent switch to behind, becoming one of Falcon Media’s most prolific directors. He also shares his perspective on what it’s like to see how gay porn has evolved during his time as...
Published 02/15/23
Welcome back to Sorry for Asking! In the season 2 premiere, Adam and Cole get used to the new and improved setup, provided by their partnership with Fleshbot x Cybersocket, while they catch up about the recent holiday season and share steamy stories from their recent sexy filming opportunities (including a shared group scene, in which Adam had a very exciting new experience). They also go in-depth about this year’s exciting gay porn awards season, their time at the GayVNs (where Cole brought...
Published 02/01/23
In the final episode of season 1, Cole and Adam share their wisdom, insights, and experiences with the body dysmorphia that often plagues performers in the gay adult industry, as well as the gay community at large. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 12/19/22
For the penultimate episode of season 1, Adam and Cole welcome actor and comedian Drew Droege to discuss a wide range of Hollywood’s film and television offerings that depict the evolving gay experience, sexual and otherwise.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 12/12/22
Our Thanksgiving Episode!  Adam and Cole discuss a delicious buffet of topics, including queer party culture, double penetration, Adam’s recent travels and Cole’s upcoming directorial enterprise, and link them all back to the spirit of giving (and receiving).  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 12/05/22
Adam and Cole welcome porn performer and Falcon Exclusive Andre Donovan, who shares the evolution of his sexual tastes and performer journey over eight years in the industry, and discusses his perspective on the importance of diversity, representation, and visibility for POC performers in gay porn and beyond.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 11/28/22
You know what doesn’t get talked about enough? Gay butt sex! The boys have an in-depth conversation about the ins and outs and the joys and woes of anal intercourse, on and off camera. Sorry in advance, Mom. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 11/21/22
This week the boys nab an exclusive interview with James Larusso, formerly known as gay porn star Tommy Defendi, who shares the extreme highs and deep lows of his very unique journey as a ‘heteroflexible’ performer, which started at the age of 18.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 11/14/22
Adam and Cole dive deep into the psychology, anatomy , and occasional help from science that it takes to keep their equipment stiff and ready in order to ensure a smooth day at work.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 11/07/22
This week, the boys welcome the LA nightlife guru, who shares his experience bringing sex positivity and a sense of humor to his very unique parties, which feature vintage porn, sexy gogo boys, and a safe space for LGBTQ folks to get their freak on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 10/31/22
Cole and Adam welcome prolific porn personality, Joel Someone, to share his experiences as the self-proclaimed ‘Maggie Gyllenhaal of gay porn,’ from working with every independent run studio to winning this year’s GayVN award for Best Bisexual performer.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 10/24/22
Cole and Adam catch up on recent events, including their respective travels and breakups, and the traumatic incident that required surgery for Cole.  They also examine what it’s like to date while being part of the adult industry.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 10/17/22
Adam and Cole are joined by Raging Stallion exclusive performer Drew Valentino, who answers questions about performing, his beginnings in the industry, and, of course, his propensity for pits. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 10/10/22
Adam and Cole discuss health issues relevant to performers, including the arduous testing processes for monkeypox, Covid, and STIs, that can be prohibitive to a productive filming schedule. They also recount the tricky landscape of porn star Twitter drama, and deconstruct the mono-normative relationship structures that are particularly difficult to function when partaking in the world of adult content. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 10/03/22
Adam and Cole welcome podcast extraordinaire, H Alan Scott, as their first guest to discuss and compare notes on the porn that shaped them in their formative years.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 09/26/22
Adam and Cole revisit the monkeypox issue and underline the importance of sexual health as performers.  They also discuss the funny politics of unsolicited nudes and share insight on the ever involving and often frustrating process of setting up content collaborations.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 09/19/22
Our first Podcast!  What are we doing here?  Adam and Cole discuss why we decided to start a podcast and what kind of things you can expect to hear on our forum.   --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Published 09/12/22