We recieve so many levels of betrayal, erasure, and abuse from society, could we try not to bring that into our personal spaces? We deserve honesty, love, and all things delicious.  Smashing the patriarchy includes us unlearning negative ways of harming human beings.  Stand tall and raise our rainbow flag but take accountability for how we treat each other.  We are all learning, we make mistakes and that's when we can break those evil chains.