We don't stumble into being good at things. Sure - there's raw talent. But, after a few curveballs get thrown into the mix then we need to reach beyond talent into experience and skill.  Communication is one of the cornerstones of a happy life. Our business, personal, and relational growth is limited by our ability to articulate what we're experiencing. Opportunities slide away from us as we miss a chance to speak up. Relationships linger longer than needed since we don't know what words...

Are phone calls still a thing? YES! And you can get better at them.  In the past few years I've decided that I want to get better at phone calls. Yes, I know people hate them. I deal with a lot of anxiety when I'm about to have a phone call! But I know that with practice and learning from others then I could be better.  In this episode I make several phone calls and ask 3 main questions: What do people who are really good at talking on the phone do?What NOT to do on a phone call?Is it OK to...

For the first time in podcast history - it's time to play some music.  Keep your expectations low - but your energy high. This episode is a great reminder of why we do what we do. Also - I wanted to use this episode to update you all on what I've been working on! I started this podcast incredibly passionate and lately I feel like I've been slacking. And I think that's a ME thing, but I also think it's a larger thing we all experience.  This episode was a way for me to revitalize my love...

Is there anything that beats a good talk with a friend or a loved one? Being able to laugh, share stories, and smile on how the universe has brought you two together.  Now try doing that but with people who you don't like, or people you've never met before, or people who you've sworn as an enemy.  Jared Seide is the Executive Director of Beyond Us and Them. He has designed, piloted and coordinated council-based programs in prisons, assisted living facilities, youth groups and a variety of...

He's been on over 500 different stages and he has talked to several cities worth of listeners. Ladies and gentlemen, meet Jason Raitz.  Jason and I first came in contact because he runs the "Speak With People Podcast" and I run the "Talk to People Podcast." When I saw this, I need I had to reach out to him. I am so glad I did because he has become an example for me to learn from and grow alongside. In this conversation, expect to hear:  one mental move you can make to improve any public...

You know that feeling when you get to hang out with a friend that fills your cup? And y'all could be just chillin' yet you're still having a major blast? Well today we get to hear from one of those people. Trent Howard is a friend, a business owner, and he stood next to me in my wedding. Just like the X-Men, Trent has a super power of his own - community. With a background in petroleum engineering, he decided to take his talents away from the sure-fire financial security of sitting on some...

More and more people are moving cities. This hasn't always been the case.  Historically, we were born in an area, raised in an area, raised a family in that area, and then retired in that area. But this has gotten much different in the modern travel era. Spirit Airlines will give you a ticket for less than what a date night at a steakhouse will cost. Corporations are moving employees from one big city to the other. Tiktok and Instagram solo travelers are inspiring others to pull the plug and...

I've always wondered how learning about people online affects our in-person relationship with them. It's a fascinating question that humans have recently had to answer. This episode will raise an eyebrow and leave you thinking about how you navigate your online social life.  And it turns out that there is actually some big impacts with how we navigate getting to know people in-person and online.  This was a fun episode. I used visual aids (that sorta failed while simultaneously panning...

In 2024 we'll be the premiere podcast on social connection! WHITEBOARD + 2024 adjustments 📝 2023 featured 52 episodes, over 15,000 downloads, and more than 1,600 listeners. In 2024 we’ll be operating as the premiere podcast about social connection for young adults! - now including virtual conversations - 2 episodes per month, instead of weekly - biweekly YouTube specials - consistent solo episodes exploring new topics! Upcoming topics: how to have a good double date, why getting to know...

For a second I thought about trying to be like Theo Von and riffing with the voicemails and then I realized how hard that would be! Thank you to everyone who sent in a voicemail or wrote a letter! You have made this process a BLAST! Feel free to keep writing in or sending emails! You can reach us at [email protected] and you can leave a voice mail at talktopeoplepodcast.com if you click the bottom right microphone icon! Have you enjoyed the podcast? If so, follow it, rate it,...

Well folks, we made it to the HALF CENTURY MARK! If you've been around for a bit or you're just starting the Talk to People Podcast, join us for a fun-filled episode.  As Buddy the Elf says, "YOU DID IT! CONGRATULATIONS! WORLD'S BEST CUP OF COFFEE! GREAT JOB EVERYBODY!" But for us its, "we did it! 50 episodes! great job everybody!" Thank you to the listeners, guests, and the Talk to People Podcast team.  Here's to 50 more 🍻 Have you enjoyed the podcast? If so, follow it, rate it, and...

The withering away of a cultural cornerstone - third places. This episode is designed for the connector who wants to upgrade their community. I share research why it matters, a story of something that I would have never expected, and a way for you to be a third place creator.  Want to see the visuals? Watch the YouTube 4K version. Your first place is where you live, your second place is where you work, your third place is where you become a part of society, build community, and get...

No matter who you are, you're going to have a moment where you're presenting your ideas.  This could be at a business meeting, at a funeral, at a coach huddle, a small group, and the list goes on. Most people are afraid of public speaking, but there are things you can do to become better at it. When you're better, then you'll also become more confident. Confidence is the result of performing well in the past.  At any given time, you can expect 20% of your audience to be checked out. This...

Sean Richards is a pastor, sales professional, and a social dynamics expect.  He is a return guest (previously featured on episode 32).  In this episode, you can expect to hear:  why your best friend may not think you're their best friendhow challenging it is to recreate community after movingthe stress of coming back from a church camp highwhy learning how to do ministry in the mundane will lead to longevitythe danger in leaning into a romantic relationship to address lonelinesswhether a...

Annie is one of my favorite people of all time. With a million dollar smile, an impeccable sense of humor, and some sharp wit, Annie is a joy to be around.  In this podcast, expect to hear about: our approach to managing stresshow couples can share stress with one anothermy journey of learning what I'm ACTUALLY stressed aboutour responsibility for each other regarding stress managementa story where I let myself get too stressed and how I got kicked out in resultthe importance of stress...

Welcome to the Talk to People Podcast, where we explore the power of social connection in young adults. In this thought-provoking series, we delve into the impact of AI, social media, and technology on our social lives, revealing both the conveniences and challenges they bring. In this episode we discuss: Dive into personal stories that shed light on my passion for understanding social intelligence and the art of reading people.Discover how AI is reshaping our social landscape, offering...

Several people have asked how to navigate SMALL TALK.  Small talk is everywhere. No matter where you go, we all have small talk. It serves an essential purpose in allowing us to acknowledge each other without having to exert energy.  But, you can get better at it! And it's really important to get better at. Because most relationships start with small talk. And that next small talk conversation you have may lead to a life changing relationship.  #communication #personaldevelopment  Have you...

With another solo episode, Chris and Logan navigate different questions that were sent in. Including:  - Is social media bad for you?  - How does social media affect our relationships?  - Is it good for friendships, or has it actually made friendship harder? - How can you use social media to actually help you? - How do you end a convo without it seeming awkward? - How long does it take to make a best friend? - Is it OK if I all of my bestfriends live in different states? - What are some...

JBP gave us 24 rules, but here's 10 rules that you can use to become a better communicator.  If you're interested in the Better Connected Communities Event, check it out here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/building-connected-communities-tickets-617270150637 Want to join the Talk to People Podcast development team? Apply here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/building-connected-communities-tickets-617270150637 #communication #personaldevelopment  Like the podcast? Email us at...

Jared Auten, LMSW, is the Crisis Line Director at HeadQuarters Kansas in Lawrence, KS. His work currently focuses on crisis center operations and 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline implementation and integration in Kansas.  I view people who answer calls on the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline as the Navy Seals of communication. Their ability to listen, ask questions, help search through intense emotion, and collaboratively bring someone to a safer place is incredible. Due to this - I spent a lot...

The three most common places people meet others (including their romantic partners) are church, work, and the bar. So, more than likely, you may go out to a bar. But what are you supposed to do when you're there? How do you meet people? How do you make friends? What do you avoid? Well I don't know the answer to these questions. I am so uneducated when it comes to navigating nightlife, but Nana has some ideas. Nana Amfo is a cohost for the CruiseLine Podcast and the Creative Director and...

Santiago Paredes is a friend, inspiration, and leader. After traveling across the country with him, I decided we needed to run it back and reflect on his one-year anniversary of living in a new city.  This is a helpful episode because we answer the question: how do I make friends when I move to a new city? Moving is one of the biggest causes of loneliness, we move away from our social support and they're we're faced with the daunting task of creating a new network.  Sure, we can call our...

Karista Paredes is a soon-to-be published author, full-time Kids Pastor, and a community leader. She is an exemplar of how vulnerability can lead to breakthrough.  Oftentimes on this podcast we talk about the importance of relationships. What we rarely touch on is what happens when relationships go wrong. Typically, we want to hide all of our relational problems, stow them away and pretend that everything is copacetic. But doing this will hurt us, our family, and prevent us from...

Emily Farley is a professional with 16 years of experience in the public health sector. She currently serves as the Director of Community Engagement at the Bert Nash Community Mental Health Center. Her knack lies in fostering genuine connections and effective communication. Emily was perfect for the podcast because of her ability to tell stories that connected people together. I believe that stories are a super power, and if you know how to properly tell a story, then you can create...

Jeremy Newman is an educator, business owner, pilot, endurance athlete, and adventurer. He grew up in North Dakota, traveled the world, and found his way to Kansas.  Growing up in a foster home, Jeremy learned how to make deep connections in a loving yet ever-changing family. This episode was really important to me because I believe that most of our social confidence starts in our family. When we're young, we get to see how our parents treat each other, we learn how to make friends with...