After high school, where do the men go? These young men, the future muscle and manpower of our country? Where are the men?  I know there is a culture war raging right now in our high schools and universities, and men are in women’s sports, and a man managed to be named “Woman of the Year” by USA Today, and all the while the adults in the room stand by silently aside while the manhood of the young adult men in our country is crucified. But where are these men going to be in 5, 10, 15, 20 years from now when our nation needs them to be the muscle, the manpower, the husbands of wives, the strength of the family, the CEO’s of all that is important and good?  We’ve not taught our young boys to protect women, respect women, be good to women because they are their future wives and future mothers of this nation.  We have not taught them how to have relationships, solve problems using words instead of physical violence, and taught them how to manage their emotions.  We’ve allowed them to play violent video games for years during their developmental years, and then wondered why they cannot have a simple “hi, how are you?” entry level conversation with another human being, why they choose aggression and violence to deal with their problems, and why they cannot reason their way through life for the benefit of themselves and others.   We have got to stop mocking, deriding, and putting down men who want to be men, and we have got to stop affirming men who act like, dress like, and who try and be women! That is not possible. A cow cannot be a duck, and a horse cannot be an eagle. We all have limitations.  How to we turn the tide, and how do we roll back the clock to get back to Men being men and women being women?  There are thousands of solutions and all of them are good.  Affirm your sons to be men, and act like men, and when they are boys and curious about girl things, explain to them what those things are and how the world is supposed to work, but teach them and affirm in them that they are boys, no matter how they feel in childhood, or the confused, difficult, trying years of being a teenager and young adult.  If you are a woman, please respect the men you know, regardless of their mistakes and past. We as women want to be loved regardless of our performance and mistakes, please show the men you know the respect they crave despite how they may sometimes act and regardless of their past mistakes. This is how we want to be treated as women. Let’s do the same for the men in our lives.  Of course if you're being abused by a man I am not talking to you, but I'm talking to the women who have good men in their lives, men who work hard, love them, are not lazy, and who want what's best for themselves and their families, and have purpose and drive to make this country better. Responsible men earn a living with their own skills and their own hands, and do not accept government money in the form of unemployment and government “stimulus” checks, which is just training for Socialism while rewarding laziness.  Statistically, no wars were won, no nation founded, no nations built, and no countries sustained and maintained, and no family succeeded for generations, without good men.  Sorry women, yes, we have also played a vital role and worked just as hard, but the foundation and bedrock of any good nation is it’s masculine men, despite what you may have thought after watching the “Wonder Woman” movie.  Statistically it is a fact that men have been the foundation of any success, society, nation, or movement. If we are wise women, we will realize this and support the good and manly men amongst us.  It’s time to honor the men and their life-affirming masculinity, before we completely lose our families, our communities, and our nation.