This week Jared breaks down the drama in paradise, starting with the fact all the new people have no chance. Kat steals John Henry from Olivia, Brayden gets left at the rose ceremony without a word from Becca (weird!) and Aaron B is in the hot seat. Kay joins for categories and names our villian of the week and who needs to get voted off the island. Follow at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We were left on quite a cliffhanger last week when Gerry had to send one of the three women home, and we pick up with all the women who made history this season. Jared and Kay grabbed their tissues as they recapped this iconic tell-all. The bloopers were bloopering, the women were more inspiring than ever and we all couldn't stop crying. Follow along @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a one-on-one chat, Jared sits down with THE Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner. Jared asks about his famous lion tat, what Gerry plans on doing after the show, and Gerry tells us what he pushed back on while filming the show. Follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This season started as a slow burn but now it's fully on fire. Kat and Jared take on this weeks episode to breakdown Kat's meltdown(s), how people need to learn to speak in "I" statements when breaking up with someone and Aaron B is in the hot seat thanks to the ghost of his ex-girlfriends. Charity crashes the island, and they vote Jess off the island. Follow along @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kay and Jared breakdown each hometown date, and the episode isn't short on cringe. Everyone seems to falling in love with Gerry and Gerry seems... in love with everyone. Teresa has her sisters, Faith has her house, and Leslie has her brother Stuart. We're left on a cliffhanger for next week and Gerry appears to have a meltdown. Follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Kay and Jared are fully settled in to paradise and have mixed feelings. The drama has never been better but is everyone just super unlikable? They discuss. Also, they say who is who from the cast of Mean Girls, and you guessed it, Kat is Regina. Karma doesn't care about Kat, or birthdays and comes in the form of Davia who whisks Tanner away for a date. Some guys stay, and some go (we'll miss you John B). Follow along at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...

Hard to believe we are only one week away from hometowns, and these women are fighting for their right to bring Gerry home. This week Kay and Jared breakdown a rather heavy episode of The Golden Bachelor. Faith opens up about her childhood with Gerry while on a make or break date. Leslie feels triggered about her past relationships, and Jared is brought to tears when Ellen goes home. Kay names her 'desperation' her villain of the week. Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your...

This week we have a special bonus episode where Kay and Jared get to sit down with Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise alum Sean McLaughlin. From quitting his job to find love, to being the resident Ken doll, he spills all the tea. Follow along at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re back in paradise and the drama just doesn't stop. Kay and Jared break down week four, starting off with the ever-looming finale on the poo-baby saga. Then with the arrival of two new men plus the introduction of a dramatic truth box, the temperature on the beach keeps rising and rising. Follow us on @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jared and Kay breakdown this episode from the pickleball tournament, to Susan getting a crystal. We're reminded of the OG franchise when we see Schlubby Joey, and seeing him made us all realize we only want Golden Bachelor moving forward. Kathy has zip-it energy and we saw the moment Gerry was done with her. Oh and apparently, Sandra is missing her daughters wedding... and that's a red flag right? And something no one ever saw coming but Kay cried when Gerry gifted Susan a rose quartz. We all...

Well this season went out on a whisper. Kay and Sam take this episode to commiserate on how fall we have fallen since season 1. We have two couples, both doomed from the beginning and Netflix frankly wasted our time. Hopefully the reunion delivers because if not, what a wash of a season. Follow along at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re in paradise and it’s anything but. Kay and Jared take on week three, and not shocking to anyone but they’re team Brayden. Because Brayden gonna Brayden. Kat remains cold as ice, Olivia needs to be voted off the island and Sam the silent one is having about to have a “poo-baby”. Follow us on @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well it only took three weeks but drama has struck the mansion. Kay and Jared breakdown this weeks episode of the Golden Bachelor and are left divided over Theresa vs. Kathy. Gerry has to wipe some tears and there’s a plot twist with our girl Joan. Who is the villain of the week? Who is going to be the star of the inevitable paradise spin off? Find out. And follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kay and Sam are back to recap the latest Love Is Blind episodes. Spoiler alert: they hate it here. They get into the 2 couples that have made it this far and their relationships, which go from unromantic to simply problematic. Will they get all the way to the altar in the finale next week? Maybe they shouldn't... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are back with another episode of The Betchelor, and Kay and Jared breakdown this weeks episode of Bachelor In Paradise. For some reason Hannah Brown is back and we're all trying to figure why everyone is freaking out... what are we missing. Brooklyn doesn't seem to care for anyone, Sean is the greek chorus of the show and Peter is exactly who we all thought he was. They come with some hot takes when it comes to the current couples of BIP and discuss their villain of the week. Follow...

As if we didn't already know that the bar is in hell when it comes to dating, Gerry simply smiling and listening to a woman has us all pining for a 72 year old man from Indiana. Jared and Kay go through the second episode of Golden Bachelor, and it makes the OG franchise look cringe. One second you're watching these women try to figure out bunkbeds (hello! They have had double knee replacements!), the next you're crying over their dead spouse. And we need our listeners to help us figure out...

For a special episode of The Betchelor, Kay got to chat with Love Is Blind contestants Taylor and Aaliyah to chat all about their time on this season. They spill some tea and give us some insight into what we can expect and how they are handling it all now. Follow us for more at @thebetchelor! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kay and Sam take us through each couple over the course of three episodes. There's ups, there's downs, and there are double standards running amok. From Lydia potentially being an unhinged Instagram stalker, Izzy's male ego, to JP telling Taylor she shouldn't wear make-up, there is so much to discuss. Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG for more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are in the island of himbos, and we have mixed feelings about it. Jared and Kay tackle the premiere of Bachelor In Paradise and we see a lot of old faces and some we don’t even remember. Brayden is back and ready to terrorize these men because him and his dangly earrings live rent free in their minds. It’s already getting messy and it’s day one. Let’s go! Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

FINALLY! The day we have all been waiting for is here. After years and years of teasing us, we are getting our senior bachelor and meeting all of the women who will be fighting for Gerry's roses. Jared and Kay break down the episode as the women come out of the limo and we're all crying. And smiling. And crying some more. This premiere delivered in every single way, bringing the show back to its original form. We can't wait for more. Follow us at @thebetchelor! Learn more about your ad...

Love Is Blind is back! Kay is joined by Samantha Bush this season to recap Love Is Blind season 5! The pods are more complicated than ever this season because there are so many love connections and some of the most desperate contestants we’ve seen in a while. Some make sense and others well… just don’t. There’s a big plot twist, one we never saw coming and it makes us think there is some potential this season. Fingers crossed! Make sure to follow us on IG at @thebetchelor. Learn more about...

Jared and Kay kick off this weeks episode and don't hold back. They defend Bach nation, and don't give a f*ck if you don't love it, and don't watch it. It's a cardinal rule, don't yuck someone else's yum. Then, they break down the second half of Gerry Turner's future roses. Jared has the hots for Marina, and wants her in a pencil skirt but isn't here for her casseroles. We all learn that a "pro aging coach" exists and we're reminded that this job would never apply to a man, but good for...

The cast of the Golden Bachelor is here, and Kay and Jared don't hold back. They go through the first 11 women who will be fighting for the Gerry Turner's final rose and they don't disappoint. There are a few wine moms, a few who might be there for the wrong reasons, and we learn shark diving is popular among the elderly community. Part 2 of the preview will be out next week. Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we are joined by our faves, Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko. They join us in studio with Jared and Kay to catch us up on what they've been up to since the finale, and their future plans (spoiler: NYC baby!). As well as what it was like filming and falling in love on camera. Charity discusses her plans with Dancing With The Stars, of course we will be cheering her on. Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Before Kay and Jared get into awards, Kay details her trip to Michigan and running into a Betchelor listener, and Jared announces a new tour. Hardest working man in showbiz! From the 'most likable' to the 'most likely to post a notes app apology' the answers will surprise (dare I say, shock) you. Not only that but it will refresh your memory on some of the forgotten men of season 20. Also, they go into detail for their predictions and what they hope to see when it comes to Joey's season. Make...