Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Zahava Griss, Founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal and cultural liberation. For over 22 years, Z has been guiding dance, embodiment, and eros as the source of healing, creativity, building community, and shifting our culture. Z's love coaching focuses on secure attachment, kink, gender, expression, polyamory, and the erotic arts.    In this episode, Z will unravel how they grew up with a lot of energy and was socialized as a white girl, which gave them the opportunity to understand how white supremacy culture is conditioned in the body. Z talks about how they recovered from ballet, “being a bun head.” Z also highlights the importance of growing in relationships especially when an erotic charge is involved. Experience better sex by tuning in to this episode!     Highlights: (03:27) What is the Grief Ritual Lineage? (04:10) Getting to know Z’s story (11:46) What is the social locator in Z’s leadership program? (12:35) Z’s leadership program and how capacity is being incorporated into it (16:01) ​​What makes the difference between someone just surviving the trauma versus someone growing from that?  (18:07) Understanding conscious breathing through yoga (25:54) What happens to your presence if you feel at capacity and where does it go?  (33:00) What are some of the stories that interrupt our sex life? (41:35) The idea of growing in relation (45:25) The healing power of conscious kink  (47:04) Dominance as a form of leadership   Links: Book a schedule here:  Embody More Love Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected] For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: [email protected] Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter