Our whole lives are sex. Yes, you read that right. And I don’t mean it literally. Sometimes sex is boring; other times, it is exciting–which is pretty much like it.   Here’s a truth about sex– it’s not just about you getting an orgasm; forget about penetration; it’s just part of it. The truth is, sex feels good and even feels best when it touches parts of us that haven’t felt good in a while; it could be our fears, our traumas, our insecurities, or whatever that isn’t feeling good inside of us, or it could be just pure connection. What feels good happens everywhere, not just in the bedroom.    In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, Ana Del Castillo is a Rightness Expert & Certified Coach with over 20 years of experience working with men and women who have great lives but still always feel like there’s something wrong. By addressing the underlying source of their suffering, Ana creates transformative experiences for her clients so they can own their inherent rightness and feel vital and alive in their skin and lives again.    An energetic, warm and empathetic leader, Ana has spoken to audiences all over the country and has coached women rock stars, entrepreneurs, and homemakers on the power and freedom of authentic rightness, whose name appeared on NPR, the NY Post, People Magazine, and The Moth. Ana coaches, speaks, and leads courses on Rightness, married to the love of her life, Ken Blackman.    Tune in to this episode as Ana unravels the truth about sex and how we can feel good even if it is not purely physical.   Highlights: (05:06) How Ana became a rightness expert, women's rightness expert, and certified coach (10:01) How does ‘Rightness’  live for Ana and her clients (12:47) How to not let others tell you your worth (14:25) Five Levels of Commitment   (17:21) Understanding and looking into the sensations in your body. (31:09)  Approaching our sex life in a much more holistic way. (33:58) Realizing that sex is more than just a physical act. (36:13) Why every moment is foreplay. (38:19) What to do once the honeymoon and the chemistry fades. (39:58) Ana’s experience of working with her husband with other couples  (45:45) Ana’s upcoming event in New York (49:03) Ana’s message for YOU!     Links: Website: My Rightness Instagram: Ana Del Castillo (@ana_del_castillo) • Instagram photos and videos LinkedIn: Ana Del Castillo - CEO and Owner - My Rightness | LinkedIn TikTok: Ana_Del_Castillo (@ana_del_castillo_) TikTok | Watch Ana_Del_Castillo's Newest TikTok Videos Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rightness?fan_landing=true&view_as=public Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected] For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: [email protected] Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter