The key to better sex is to understand ourselves– what makes us feel good and what doesn’t. Women are often not given the chance to rule in bed or they aren’t even asked if they are enjoying the moment.  Communicating and understanding what we want as a woman allows us to live with more connection and pleasurable experience that suffices our desires and erotic fantasies– this is where real empowerment lies. Know that you can speak up for yourself and that maybe you can learn how to be more assertive about your desires and boundaries because we deserve a good sex life after all! In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Lana Sequoia. Lana has eight and a half years of experience as a sex worker, ranging from tantric massage to companionship. She is a massage therapist and energy worker. She has studied Tantra, she studied somatic therapy for sex, and relationship coaching. And right now she is doing another coaching program in the trauma of trauma-informed work so that she can bring even more healing and love to the planet. So her main, her main clientele is men with the occasional couple. If you want to learn about unfiltered conversations on sex and the sex industry, then this episode is for you! I really believe that a sexy world creates a happier world and a safer world. If you want to do your part in creating a sexy, safe world. Please hit subscribe, and leave a review on Apple podcasts or wherever you are listening. Highlights: (02:20) How Lana got into the world of Sex Work (05:48)  Understanding Sensual Massage + How Each Session Go  (18:12) Learning Boundaries: Sharing your desires and asking for the desires of others (24:24)  How knowing one’s desires work and how fantasy plays into it (30:37) Stereotypes and prejudices given to sex workers that are damaging and inaccurate (38:50) Lana’s experience during the pandemic given that there is no access to in-person clients (46:10) On Becoming a Conscious Creator (49:07) Valuing friendship and connection in the sex industry   Links: Website:LANA SEQUOIA OnlyFans: Lana Sequoia ♡ OnlyFans Email:[email protected] Instagram:Lana Sequoia ♡ (@lana.sequoia) • Instagram photos and videos Twitter:https://twitter.com/lanasequoia Slixa: https://www.slixa.com/california/san-jose/lana-sequoia   Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected] For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: [email protected] Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter