Is there such a thing as ‘ethical porn’? In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sex Therapist Dr. Tom Murray to explore this question as well as pornography trends, erotophobia and different control dynamics as they play out within relationships .  Along the way, hear more of Dr. Tom’s story of becoming a sex therapist including time spent with pornography distribution giving him an insider’s view to the industry.  Besides exploring the relationship between societal norms, expectations, fantasies and desires, we take a deep dive into control dynamics, namely over-controlling,  in relationships, a topic he writes about  in his book, “Making Nice with Naughty: An Intimacy Guide.”   Dr. Murray gives some ways to bring more playfulness into the bedroom to deepen intimacy and of course, have better sex. Connect with Dr Tom The Book Making Nice with Naughty https://drtommurray.com/books/ apathtowellness.com Making Nice with Naughty Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC78viRgDA05daSGFVD4QoPg   Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback [email protected] Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab