In this "You Ask, We Answer," we tackle the intricate nuances of wedding etiquette that often leave couples scratching their heads. From managing delicate family dynamics to addressing uninvited guests with grace, we've got your back. Discover how to set clear expectations with family members who may not see eye to eye, navigate tricky conversations about guest lists, and handle financial contributions with diplomacy. Plus, we dive into the world of 'Thank You' cards, offering insights on timing, personalization, and expressing gratitude. Join us as we decode the modern rules of wedding etiquette and empower you to make your special day a harmonious and meaningful occasion. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full episodes TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center Monthly Wedding Planning Happy Hours via Zoom with Michelle Bonus Episodes Extra tools and gifts get sprinkled in every so often! Questions We Answered How do you set expectations with families that don't get along with one another?  How do you respond when someone says "I can't wait for the wedding," but they are not on the guest list? How do you convey that children are not welcome at the wedding politely? How do you respond when someone implies that your wedding is a waste of money? Everything ‘Thank You’ cards! Appropriate timing to send? Do we hand write? What to write? Is there etiquette for acknowledging family that financially contribute? If the bride's family is paying for the entire wedding, do you have to split the guest list 50/50 between families? What is the role of the groom's parents today? What do we pay for? About The Guest Certified etiquette trainer Mariah Grumet brings a modern twist to timeless lessons, helping clients strengthen connections and reach their full potential in personal and professional lives. Old Soul Etiquette offers private consulting, webinars, and more on youth, dining, personal branding, and more. Mariah's expertise has been featured in The Today Show, Forbes, Martha Stewart, and more. She is also the author of "What Do I Do? Every Wedding Etiquette Question Answered." Links We Referenced Old Soul Etiquette Website Old Soul Etiquette on Instagram Mariah’s Book! The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Inviting you to become part of our Facebook Group! Join us and our amazing members. Just search for The Big Wedding Planning Podcast Community on Facebook. Easy to get in touch with. Email us at [email protected] or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices