In this episode of The Brink, former All Black Matthew Ridge and David Ring dive headfirst into the world of cosmetic surgery, vanity, and the pressures of maintaining youth. We share our personal experiences and perspectives on why people choose to undergo cosmetic procedures. We also touch on the changing gender norms and expectations around appearance. The conversation highlights the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance, while acknowledging the desire to look and feel one's best. Takeaways Cosmetic surgery has become more socially acceptable, with both men and women seeking procedures to enhance their appearance. The desire to look and feel young and relevant is a driving factor behind the increasing popularity of cosmetic surgery. Authenticity is key, and cosmetic procedures should be a personal choice that aligns with one's own values and self-acceptance. Changing gender norms and expectations have contributed to the growing acceptance of cosmetic surgery for men. Research and finding a reputable surgeon are crucial when considering cosmetic procedures.