In the latest episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, in Steffany's absence, host Patrick Francey interviews special guest Shelly Lefkoe, a transformational coach specializing in eliminating deep-seated beliefs that shape behavior and emotions. Shelly explains how unconscious beliefs, often formed in childhood, significantly impact our adult lives and limit our potential. Shelly describes her late husband’s process, developed over 35 years ago, that identifies and eradicates these limiting beliefs. She highlights the distinction between patterns, such as procrastination or fear of public speaking, and the underlying beliefs that cause them. By addressing these beliefs, individuals can overcome unwanted behaviors and live more authentically. The discussion delves into the nature of fear, particularly fear of failure and public speaking. Shelly explains that fear often stems from perceived threats to survival, like fear of rejection or criticism. By eliminating the beliefs that underpin these fears, individuals can break free from limiting patterns. Shelly shares a practical technique for managing emotions by questioning the meaning we give to events, emphasizing that events themselves have no inherent meaning. By reframing these meanings, we can change our emotional reactions and reduce negative feelings. The episode underscores the importance of self-awareness and being conscious of our thoughts and beliefs as the first step toward meaningful change. Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to identify and overcome the beliefs holding you back from living the life you dream of.