People pleasing shows up in birth a LOT. But this one sneaky way of people pleasing also tends to show up even in the most experienced, assertive and unapologetic birth spaces. In this episode I discuss: -People pleasing practices in the birth space are what hospitals are used to and staff may be shocked when you are assertive. -Evidence can be a useful tool in decision making but we don't need to use it to please others. -Evidence is based in the medical model and not physiology, it's not the end all be all for moms who want unmedicated, physiologic births. Other episodes you'll love: 111 | Be more UNAPOLOGETIC 110 | Unmedicated birth is not always empowering, natural, or orgasmic  116 | 3 things that will sabotage your birth plan