Do you enjoy the Franciska Show? Then please consider treating me to a cup of coffee:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/franciska Email Franciska: [email protected]   In this episode, Franciska speaks with Rabbi Abraham Shmidman who shares insights on being a community rabbi, addressing the challenges of community growth and unity, particularly in relation to neighboring Lakewood. He delves into various topics, including halachic issues, financial dilemmas, crises such as mental health emergencies and divorces, and the Shidduch (matchmaking) process. Rabbi Shmidman also shares his experiences helping families with LGBTQ+ members and discusses the importance of supporting Israeli soldiers amidst current conflicts. Throughout, he emphasizes the importance of knowing one’s limitations and working with appropriate professionals. Link to Donate: https://www.lowermerionsynagogue.org/ierf     00:00 Welcome & Personal Updates 01:09 Introducing Rabbi Abraham Schmidman 01:34 Rabbi Schmidman's Journey: From Manhattan to Balacan 03:33 Challenges of Being a Community Rabbi 04:22 Addressing the Needs of a Neighboring Community to Lakewood 07:07 Navigating Financial and Halachic Queries 14:05 Crisis Intervention and Community Support 20:09 Understanding the Role of a Rabbi in Sensitive Cases 24:06 Navigating Marital Disputes and Coercive Measures 26:03 Addressing Enablers and Community Accountability 27:11 The Rabbi's Role and Influence in Community Dynamics 32:59 Challenges in the Shidduch Process and Modern Dating 41:20 Navigating Family Dynamics with LGBTQ+ Members 45:21 Supporting Israel: Personal Stories and Community Efforts 48:54 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement for Engagement   NEW MUSIC VIDEO "Tfilat Haderech" (KOL ISHA): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BHycQrHvNo   CITRON & ROSE TAVERN: https://www.citronrosetavern.com (BALA CYNWYD RESTAURANT)   Check out: www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network.