We are back, after a few months pause. In this episode we discuss: Learned Secure Attachment Neil's changing attachment strategies Over-Sharing vs Mutual Care Emotional dumping, lubricating with logic Speech, language our lens of awareness Deserving and privilege Helping ourselves and others from Victim mindset using tentative offerings Rupture and repair Labelling and pigeon-hole-ing Triggers The damage of having your phone on you Asking what kind of response the other wants Conditional love and holding the other to ransom - Responsibility fascism Too much expectation vs having clear standards - Workshops, courses and 1:1 coaching at ⁠⁠Positively-Mindful.com: ⁠⁠ by Neil Morbey - Courses and other offerings at ⁠⁠jamiecatto.com ⁠⁠by Jamie Catto Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024 In this podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Jamie Catto (⁠⁠⁠Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and⁠⁠⁠ Neil Morbey ⁠⁠⁠(Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support.  If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ and [email protected]