In this episode, I sit down with Matt Thurmond, the 2024 Pac-12 Coach of the Year and head coach of Arizona State University’s men’s golf team. Since taking the reins in 2016, Matt has transformed ASU into a powerhouse, leading them to 24 tournament wins, back-to-back NCAA Regional titles, and a Pac-12 Championship. Matt’s earned multiple West Region and Pac-12 Coach of the Year honors and coached 11 Sun Devils to 18 All-America honors. Matt shares his philosophy on balancing success and setbacks, emphasizing mental resilience and the power of a growth mindset. He breaks down the recruiting process, revealing what he looks for in young athletes, and how he customizes his approach for each player’s unique goals and motivations. Matt’s advice goes beyond golf, touching on the importance of supportive relationships and self-forgiveness, offering parents and young players practical ways to thrive under pressure. With insights into the daily life of a college golfer and the need for mental strength and joy in the game, this conversation is packed with wisdom. Whether you’re a parent, player, or coach, Matt’s perspective on the journey of junior golf is one you don’t want to miss. Takeaways Success and failure are part of everyone's journey, and it's important to acknowledge and learn from both. Individualized coaching is crucial in understanding and meeting the unique needs and motivations of each player. Belief in oneself and deep understanding of one's abilities are key to achieving success in golf and in life. Goals should be driven by personal beliefs and serve as directional beacons rather than strict targets. Enjoying the process and finding passion in what you do is more important than focusing solely on the end result. Having a healthy and supportive relationship outside of the game can have a big impact on a golfer's mental, physical, and emotional state. Elite-level golfers are driven and hard on themselves, but they also have the ability to forgive themselves and move on from mistakes. A typical week for college golfers includes practice, workouts, and competition preparation, with a focus on improving all areas of the game. Manufacturing pressure in practice can be done through team drills, inviting spectators, and tracking results. Parents should take pressure off their child golfer and not tie their own happiness to their child's performance. Reading Carol Dweck's 'Mindset' is recommended for parents and players to understand the importance of a growth mindset. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Recent Success 04:49 Navigating Success and Failure 07:04 Dealing with Disappointment and Learning from Failure 10:02 Coaching and Learning from Inspirational Movies 10:34 Lessons Learned from Coaching for Over Two Decades 15:21 Individualized Coaching and Understanding Players 19:13 Recruiting and Evaluating Potential Players 21:31 The Role of Goals in Achieving Success 24:21 Finding Passion in the Process 28:27 The Underrated Aspect of Relationships in Golf 32:21 The Ability to Forgive and Move On 33:20 A Typical Week for College Golfers 44:45 Manufacturing Pressure in Practice 46:44 Taking Pressure Off Child Golfers 48:54 The Importance of a Growth Mindset Links: Matt Thurmond ASU  - https://www.instagram.com/sundevilmgolf Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/coachmattthurmond The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent For more information check out www.thegolfparent.com