Welcome back feelers to ep 87!  First up, Josh reveals he met Sexy South African Man and has quite the recap to give. Lets just say he's eating some words he said a couple of ex's ago. Then the two discuss dating with children, and the protocol around disclosing that you have a kid. How early on should you tell someone? Would you date someone with a kid?  Finally, let's unpack childhood/high school sweethearts. Are you missing out on life if you're in one of these types of relationships? Is the risk of the relationship ending higher due to curiosity? Cass gives a 10/10 tip for anyone in a long term relationship wanting to spice things up.     See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.