In this episode, Jamie interviews New York Times Best Selling authors Vanessa and Xander Marin. She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, he’s a regular dude, and together they wrote Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.   They’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you’ll be calling your new besties in no time. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.   Follow them on Instagram @vanessaandxander, and tune in to their podcast, Pillow Talks, for totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership FREE GUIDE: The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide FREE GUIDE: How To Coparent With A High Conflict Ex: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/https://jamiescrimgeour.com/how-to-co-parent-with-high-conflict-ex     For More From  Vanessa and Xander Marin Follow them on Instagram Listen to their podcast: Pillow Talk   Get Your Copy: Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.     Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with your purchase   OSEA - www.oseamalibu.com and use the code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off your order   Tonic Site Shop - www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic and use the code JAMIE15 for 15% off