This is Part II of The Play featuring Michael Hollis. Be sure and go pack to EP#162 to catch the first half. https://youtu.be/NuDUtkxroyg https://open.spotify.com/episode/2gTD3KuwOcqYMviUz8xbwV?si=PjlyWecHQQWux3EULRSNgw Intro (00:00:00) Michael describes the welcoming atmosphere at play parties, including bag and phone checks. Size Doesn't Matter (00:00:33) Discussion on perceptions of penis size and the importance of personality and skills in intimate settings. Consent and Boundaries (00:03:59) Emphasis on the importance of consent and setting boundaries, especially regarding voyeurism. Intimacy Exercise (00:05:05) Explanation of an intimacy exercise involving eye gazing to foster nonverbal communication. Dibs: Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries (00:08:10) Introduction to the "dibs" concept for sharing desires and boundaries among participants. Creating a Positive Space (00:10:17) Discussion on fostering a positive culture around play parties through open communication and shared experiences. Art and Performances at Parties (00:12:29) Michael describes the creative performances that enhance the atmosphere at play parties. Crowdsourced Art Experiences (00:14:06) Michael shares a memorable puppet show performance that humorously addresses insecurities in relationships. Late-Night Connections (00:16:29) Observations of various intimate and playful interactions occurring at parties, showcasing diversity in experiences. Goddess Garden Concept (00:19:37) Explanation of a female-only space at parties to encourage exploration and comfort among women. Vulnerability and Connection (00:20:40) Michael emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections at play parties. After Party Dynamics (00:21:09) Discussion on the continuation of the party atmosphere and the challenges of ending a successful event. Play Party Leadership (00:22:29) Discussion on leadership dynamics and the importance of knowing when to follow. Scarf Cocking Humor (00:23:12) Light-hearted exchange about a production manager's choice of attire at a party. Next Steps for Community Involvement (00:24:07) Guidance on how to apply and engage with the play party community. Introducing the Play Network App (00:24:54) Overview of a new app designed for community connection and sharing experiences. Community Engagement and Features (00:26:31) Discussion on app features for connecting people and sharing kinks. Networking and Job Opportunities (00:27:38) Exploring networking, job listings, and community events within the app. Appreciation for Community Builders (00:29:06) Acknowledgment of the importance of courageous individuals in sex-positive discussions. Validation of Efforts (00:30:54) Reinforcement of the shared mission in promoting sex positivity and community support. Closing Remarks (00:31:44) Final thoughts on community building and encouragement for continued efforts. Follow The Play: https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/ Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Sponsor: Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support