Join my exclusive, online women’s community, Becoming HER, TODAY with your special discounted rate: HERE Whats up my friends and welcome back! This week we are welcoming back a man we know and love who has helped so many individuals as a dating coach, Evan Marc Katz. He specializes in helping smart, successful, women create lasting love. The last episode we talked about the dating game which you should DEFINITELY check out, but this week we are talking about relationships… let's get started!  In this episode… Adult romance  Relationships goals  Honesty  Optimism  Online dating  Safe, heard, and understood  Confidence  Quotes “Dating for some people is such a shitshow but online and off. So sometimes it's really hard for people to break through and feel special when we have created these systems of online dating apps where we basically dehumanize everybody to be products.” - Evan Marc Katz  “Good qualities come with bad qualities.” - Evan Marc Katz  “If I am going to be with a man for a long period of time, then I do not need to rush into anything.” - Nikki Spo “No man is real until he is your boyfriend. He is just hope, fantasy, projection, and potential.” - Evan Marc Katz  “If you don’t have confidence, nothing works. It is the umbrella in which everything resigns.” - Evan Marc Katz  Timestamps:  0:00 - 3:20 | Intro  3:20 - 7:05 | Adult romance   7:05 - 8:55 | Creating your own paradigm  8:55 - 11:25 | Honesty  11:25 - 13:10 | Optimism 13:10 - 17:40 | Online dating  17:40 - 27:00 | Good qualities come with bad qualities  27:00 - 32:26 | Dealing with uncertainty  32:32 - 36:15 | Being present while keeping an eye on the future  36:15 - 41:30 | Compromise  41:30 - 45:55 | Collaboration  45:55 - 47:25 | Handling conflict  47:25 - 52:10 | Having the hard convos  52:10 - 58:20 | Recommendations for dealing with self doubt  58:20 - 1:00:25 | What makes relationships last  1:00:25 - 1:02:27 | Outro  — SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW. Connect with Evan Marc Katz  https://www.evanmarckatz.com/  @realevanmarckatz  Connect with Nikki  www.nikkispo.com   @nikkisappspo /  @theknowwithnikkispo  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices