YES. You read that right. I promise the title will make sense by the end of the episode LOL I was also so inspired by my most recent viral Tiktok videos about Disassociating during sex I figured why not have a super transparent conversation on the pod and chat about the ways I believe trauma has contributed to me not being able to be in the moment during sex. In this episode I also touch on the time when I was 12 years old and got my heart RIPPED OUT and was completely embarrassed in front of all of my peers after confessing my love for a crush….so yeah, there’s a lot to unpack. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THE VIBE PAD 2 YOU CAN HEAD TO THE SITE BELOW & USE THE CODE LOVEATIYA FOR $$$ OFF! Black owned sex shop: https://www.shopsedure.com/ Become a member for exclusive access: https://www.loveatiya.com/membersonlysignup Don’t forget to keep up with me on all of my socials besties! Instagram: @loveatiya TikTok: @iloveatiya & @loveatiya  YouTube: iloveatiya Website: Loveatiya.com   For Hair & Skincare: https://www.loveatiya.com/  For Jewelry: https://www.imanijewelry.com/ For Herbs: https://heavenhighnyc.com/