In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.  In Part 11 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils explain how women don't want only a*****es or just nice guys, but they do want men who are tough and assertive to the world but kind and caring to them; a tender defender.   They go over how to improve and display both agreeable and assertiveness. For more on the tender defender, listen to our previous podcast episodes.