“Six months ago my life had been at a complete standstill for about a year. And then, it took a complete overhaul when I met my father again after 10 years. I saw my life going in the same direction as his and I refused to go down that path. Only days later I broke off two very toxic and eerily similar relationships, the one with my girlfriend at the time and the one with my mother. My life was a complete mess at this point.
I decided to go to therapy and that’s where a long process of self improvement began. Of course I had to do a lot of inner work and I did that at therapy. But I also wanted to change and improve my daily life. And truthfully The Mating Grounds have been about 80% of the solution. With the advice of Tucker I started focusing on the areas of my life that needed work and slowly, but surely I started improving all those areas.
See what The Mating Grounds offer isn’t just dating advice, really it’s life advice! It’s about cultivating a personality of success and creating an amazing life for yourself to enjoy with others. It’s about becoming an attractive man and once you do that girls just seem to come your way. The podcasts so far cover part of the written advice from the site plus some new nuggets of gold.
Really, my life couldn’t be more different now and I’m still seeing improvements every week. I’m finally finishing my thesis and getting my degree. I’ve created a rich and active social life, regularly getting invitations to events and get togethers. And I get a ton of attention from girls. They literally scream out my name when I arrive at social occasions and welcome me with a hug and a kiss. They look at me, they touch me, they want to talk to me, they introduce me to their cute female friends. Even women I don’t know start talking to me while I’m out with my friends and happily agree to go on dates.
Just the other day, a girl from my CrossFit box started talking to me on Facebook chat. She’s a little older than me, has a pretty face with an incredible smile, always sweet, light and positive and since she’s into CrossFit she has a super hot body. So we went back and forth a little and then suddenly she confessed that she had been thinking about me that day… Wait, what!? Of course I took it as a clear signal and decided to ask her out for a drink at the end of our conversation, but before I could even ask her she had proposed to go for a bike ride together!
Of course it felt amazing. But not just because an awesome girl who I’m into is asking me out. More importantly that moment was the pay off for all the hard work I’d been putting in and it felt fulfilling. And I’ve put in that work, but Tucker and Geoff have been telling me where to aim my efforts.”
StefanoMartin via Apple Podcasts ·
Netherlands ·
07/12/14