In the first episode of the 2023 podcast series with Yayasan Mendaki, the focus is on the theme of being present in our children's lives. The episode begins with an introduction to Yayasan Mendaki, a self-help group that supports the development of the Malay/Muslim community in Singapore. The guest of honor is Ustazah Liyana Musfirah, a mother of three children. The discussion revolves around the importance of being present in our children's lives and the choices parents have in such situations. The podcast emphasizes the significance of being there for our children, actively listening to their stories without interrupting or passing judgment. It acknowledges the challenges parents face in finding the time to be fully present. The guest and the host share their thoughts and experiences on the topic. The episode highlights the difference between presence and presents. It presents two situations: one where parents prioritize their presence despite financial constraints, and another where parents focus on buying expensive toys but lack emotional connection with their child. The importance of establishing a close-knit relationship with children from a young age is emphasized through the experiences shared.