When we face great pressures, the most common reaction is to get angry. How are we supposed to deal with anger from the person we love, when anger is such an unloveable thing to have to respond to?What if it is getting out of hand, and we're getting tired of the anger spewing out too often?Don't worry! Here are some concrete strategies for responding that Amy and Josh have been practising for the past 4-5 years. They've experienced an ongoing set of stressful situations during and after a problematic house build, with two young children, and have practised these strategies over and over - and they work.