If you were having trouble in your relationship, would your family tell you to work it through with your partner? Chances are in the NZ culture, they would probably tell you something like "you shouldn't have to put up with that!".There are two problems with this:1. They are biased 2. They are usually not qualified to advise you on how to resolve your relationship issueAmy uses a slightly sneaky tactic to illustrate her point, and hopes she won't get into too much trouble with Josh when he finds out!