Join us for a compelling episode where we explore the essence of happiness and work ethic with Paul Epstein, a two-time bestselling author and former NFL and NBA executive. Listen in as Paul recounts his early life experiences in Baja California, shedding light on the "inner game" of success over external achievements. Through heartfelt memories, he illustrates the profound impact of purpose, legacy, and relationships on his storied career, offering wisdom and practical advice on finding joy in life's simplest moments. Next, we tackle the challenge of instilling work ethic and resilience in children growing up in comfortable environments. Discover practical strategies such as using time clocks for school attendance and encouraging persuasive presentations to foster decision-making skills and responsibility. We also discuss the role of curiosity, passion, and higher education in developing a proactive mindset, highlighting the importance of creating adversity for kids who don't naturally face hardships. Finally, we explore the significance of soft skills in business through the contrasting leadership styles of two San Francisco 49ers presidents, Parag and Al Guido. The conversation underscores the value of emotional intelligence, effective one-on-one communication, and understanding workplace culture. Additionally, we cover topics such as building resilience in sports sales, connecting through common ground, and maintaining focus for holistic growth. Learn how to use Mondays as a launchpad for sustained success and navigate the balance between business focus and personal growth. Don't miss this insightful episode packed with valuable lessons for personal and professional development. Highlights: (01:24 - 02:33) Early Life and Inner Game (05:46 - 07:26) Mexican Work Ethic and Parenting Values (14:13 - 16:00) The Value of Networking in Education (21:36 - 22:23) Communication Skills With Son (27:21 - 28:21) Building Resilience Through Responsibility (35:53 - 36:46) Connecting Values to Real Estate Offers (40:07 - 41:26) Finding Meaning and Mattering in Work (47:01 - 47:58) Special Connection to Las Vegas (54:33 - 55:34) Overcoming Shiny Squirrel Syndrome (57:46 - 59:21) Social Media Distraction and Productivity CHAPTERS  (00:00) Happiness and Work Ethic (07:26) Instilling Work Ethic in Children (18:01) Importance of Soft Skills in Business (25:31) Building Resilience in Sports Sales (30:21) Connecting Through Common Ground (41:26) Embracing the Win Monday Concept (48:00) Mastering Monday Momentum and Holistic Growth (53:52) Navigating Business Focus and Personal Growth (01:00:43) Empowering Talk 💬 Did you enjoy this podcast episode? Tell us all about it in the comment section below!  ☑️  If you liked this video, consider subscribing to Escaping The Drift with John Gafford *************💯 About John Gafford: After appearing on NBC's "The Apprentice", John relocated to the Las Vegas Valley and founded several successful companies in the real estate space. ➡️ The Gafford Group at Simply Vegas, top 1% of all REALTORS nationwide in terms of production. Simply Vegas, a 500 agent brokerage with billions in annual sales Clear Title, a 7-figure full-service title and escrow company. ➡️ Streamline Home Loans - An independent mortgage bank with more than 100 loan officers. The Simply Group, A national expansion vehicle partnering with large brokers across the country to vertically integrate their real estate brokerages. ************* ✅ Follow John Gafford on social media: Instagram ▶️ /a...