Welcome to Episode 22! I’m Dr. Nicole. In this episode, Dr. Nicole hosts upper-echelon matchmaker Shae Primus. They discuss common misconceptions about matchmaking and delve into Shae's extensive experience connecting over 500 couples. Shae talks about the intricacies of her matchmaking process, the importance of self-improvement, and balancing professional success with personal desires in relationships. She highlights the value of genuine traits over superficial checklists and emphasizes the need for effective communication and understanding in fostering healthy partnerships. Shae shares her journey through personal anecdotes and professional insights and offers advice for women striving to find meaningful relationships. You can follow Shea on Instagram @Shaeprimusmatchmaker Subscribe, share, and leave a comment to join the conversation on connecting to your feminine essence. Get more valuable insights on relationships and feminine empowerment in my book, "The Boundaries to Bliss Blueprint," available for purchase here: https://www.boundariestoblissblueprint.com Find out more about the Boundaries to Bliss Society Inner Circle Community. www.drnicolemonteiro.com/boundaries Stay tuned for more episodes, and remember to send in your questions for me to address in future episodes. Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Matchmaking 00:45 Meet Shay Primus: The Upper Echelon Matchmaker 01:09 The Misconceptions About Matchmaking 01:53 Shay's Journey and Success Stories 04:40 Balancing HR and Matchmaking 06:19 Challenges and Strategies in Matchmaking 11:15 The Rick Ross Story 14:36 Empowering Black Women in Relationships 17:20 The Importance of Femininity and Compatibility 29:49 Realistic Expectations in Dating 31:17 The Harsh Reality of Unrealistic Expectations 32:13 The Millionaire's Perspective on Relationships 33:24 Weight Loss and Attracting the Right Partner 35:11 The Importance of Confidence and Vibration 38:50 Understanding Needs vs. Wants in Relationships 40:18 Red Flags vs. Deal Breakers 41:39 Effective Communication in Relationships 47:27 The Role of Femininity in Relationships 50:40 The Matchmaking Process and Client Expectations 56:19 Finding Hope and Preparing for Love 59:56 Conclusion and Contact Information Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-secret-formula-of-femininity/exclusive-content