It's easy to that that going on more dates will equal a higher chance of you finding that ultimate relationship. But there's a reason why going on more dates might actually be preventing you from having success in dating and why "dating is a numbers game" is a nuanced myth! And take it from someone that only went on 16 first dates scross the three years of dating, with one of those sixteen leading to the relationship I'm in now. If you're a serial dater, who's finding yourself ...