“I need you at 4 AM when I have two screaming babies and I don’t know what to do.” Kate, Sharla, Victoria and Kristy chat about the elusive village. They discuss the loneliness that comes with having a child during the pandemic and after moving to a new country, how asking for help can sometimes feel like a burden, how friendships change post-kids, and how some people just don’t seem to understand the relentless stress of mothering young children.