Things that could be killing your sex life … Feeling unappreciated Not being pursued outside the bedroom. (Not feeling pursued or desired.)Not talking about sex StressMenopauseMedications (beta blockers, birth control, antidepressants, blood pressure meds)Depression TirednessNot feeling pursued or desired. BusynessGetting stuck in a rutPoor health and poor hygieneED and low Testosterone PornNot feeling emotionally safe Letting your children sleep in your bed every nightPhysical limitations Support the show