Episode 330 Grace's VBAC With the Odds Stacked Against Her
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Grace found The VBAC Link Podcast while still in the hospital after her first unexpected C-section. Her recovery was brutal and she knew she never wanted to experience that again.  Grace is a labor and delivery nurse located on the Wisconsin/Illinois border. She shares what it was like preparing for her VBAC while working at a hospital that didn’t support VBAC.  Though she found a supportive practice, Grace faced unexpected pressure for interventions at the end of her pregnancy. Ultimately, she advocated her VBAC wishes and they continued to support her. When she contracted a fever and her baby had prolonged heart decels at 10 centimeters, Grace was prepped and wheeled to the OR. She mentally surrendered to the idea of another C-section.  But when baby’s heart recovered, she was encouraged to keep pushing! Her baby boy came out in just four pushes and Grace was able to achieve the VBAC she so deeply desired.  The VBAC Link Blog: Finding a VBAC-supportive Provider The VBAC Link Blog: 10 Signs to Switch Your Provider The VBAC Link Blog: VBAC vs Repeat C-section How to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for Parents Full Transcript under Episode Details  Meagan: Women of Strength, we’ve got a VBAC story coming your way today. We’ve got our friend, Grace. Where are you? Illinois?  Grace: Yep. I’m right in between Milwaukee and Chicago right on the Wisconsin/Illinois border.  Meagan: Okay, awesome. Well welcome to the show and she does have a little babe right now with her. How old is your baby? Grace: He just turned a month old yesterday.  Meagan: A month old and this is your VBAC baby.  Grace: Yep. There he is. The man himself.  Meagan: This is so fresh. Oh my gosh. I love when we get fresh stories. I feel like you’re probably still even processing as you tell your story.  Grace: Yep. I am. I practiced a couple times to make sure I didn’t leave out important details.  Meagan: Well, we are so excited to have you on the show. We do have a Review of the Week and then we’re going to get into your stories and then we’re going to talk a little bit about when the odds are stacked against you at the end and then spoiler alert, Grace is a labor and delivery nurse so I’m going to ask her some questions about how it is to be a labor and delivery nurse and supporting VBAC in her community.  Okay, so we have this review. Its title is, “Tears plus stories plus hope plus joy equals education.” It says, “I discovered these ladies when I was 9 months postpartum from a very traumatic section and was eagerly beginning to research how to heal and build a new birth team for when my second baby came along. Now just a few months later, I’ve listened to almost all of the episodes and I hear the joy and the redemption these mamas have when they are in control of their births. It spurs me on towards my goal of one day having a successful VBAC. I cry when they cry. I feel joy when they feel joy. I feel sadness when they feel sadness and encouragement and elation when they succeed. It’s been quite the therapeutic discovery and I’m so glad Julie and Meagan created this resource. Each time Meagan or Julie directly addresses the audience as Women of Strength, I get goosebumps and I know in my heart I AM and WILL BE that woman of strength. I hope to one day share my version of success within this community.”  That just gave me the chills so I’m just going to add tears plus stories plus hope plus joy plus chills equals education to that one. Thank you so much for your review.  If you have not done so, as always, we would love them and you never know, you may just be read on the next podcast.  Meagan: Okay, cute Grace.  Grace: Hello.  Meagan: Welcome, welcome. Let’s get going into your stories.  Grace: Okay, so first of all, thank you for having me. This is amazing. I’m glad I had a VBAC but it’s even cooler that I get to be on the podcast.  For my first pregnancy, I had just missed
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