In this episode, the hosts interview Xavier and Nicki from Everyday Pack Leader, a dog training business. They discuss the importance of relationship-based training and understanding the dog's needs. They emphasize the need for owners to be the pack leader and provide guidance and safety for their dogs. They also address the misconception around dominance and alpha theory, highlighting the importance of word choices in dog training. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the need for a strong connection between humans and dogs and the importance of fulfilling the dog's needs. In this conversation, Xavier and Millie from Everyday Pack Leader discuss the importance of changing our perspective from being mean to being the best friend for our dogs. They emphasize the need to create a safe and trusting relationship with our dogs, providing them with guidance and support. They also discuss the importance of dealing with discomfort and anxiety in both dogs and humans, and the need to find the balance between feeling better and getting better. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding the individual needs of each dog and the importance of patience in dog training. Takeaways Relationship-based training is crucial for effective dog training.Understanding the dog's needs and providing guidance and safety is essential for a healthy relationship.Word choices in dog training can impact the perception and effectiveness of training methods.Being a pack leader means providing structure, boundaries, and fulfilling the dog's needs. Change your perspective from being mean to being the best friend for your dog.Create a safe and trusting relationship with your dog by providing guidance and support.Deal with discomfort and anxiety in both dogs and humans to promote growth and learning.Understand the individual needs of each dog and find the right balance between feeling better and getting better. Connect with Everyday Pack Leader:  website - https://linktr.ee/Everydaypackleader instagram - @everyday_pack_leader Work with Millie here: https://www.mirrorimagek9.com/contactus Instagram: @thinklikeadogpodcast @Mirrorimagek9 @OzzieAlbiesFoundation