When it comes to social movements, humans tend to swing from one extreme to another. Today we sit down with our good sis Adella Afadi to ask the question, have we gone too far with some of our responses to internet trends and conversations on the male gaze, being a ‘pick me’ and recovering from people pleasing?  💌 Introducing our guest Adella Afadi is a social commentator, YouTuber and host, with a unique skill of bringing deep, nuanced and fun conversations and theories to the internet.  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdellaAfadi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adellaafadi TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adellaafadi TIMESTAMPS:  00:00 Welcome to the conversation with Adella Afadi 03:02 Asking Your Questions: Marriage, Celibacy & Self-discovery 13:25 Finding Balance: The Male Gaze, Pick Me’s & People Pleasing ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.