Hello，我是你们的佟掌柜，大家一直都在期待我聊聊《再见爱人3》，所以我就录制了一期solo。聊聊最近对爱与婚姻一些新的感悟 【时间轴】 02:50 身处人情社会，难免被周围的观点影响，但依然要坚持自己的理念 07:50 婚姻中没有绝对的真相，谁洗碗谁做饭，真的很难算清 12:50 婚姻真正无法挽救的时刻，是当一方模拟把对方从生活里摘出去的瞬间 14:30 《阿德尔曼夫妇 》打开婚姻新的视角与可能性 18:00 不要在婚姻中无底线的提出要求 20:19 爱是糟糕的东西，爱让人嫉妒，让人面目全非，不勇敢的人，别步入爱河 25:05 无法评价节目里的每一对夫妻，“爱与不爱之间 离得不是太远” 【ED曲】 寂寞的恋人-莫文蔚 【互动】 微博：@标准佟掌柜 小红书：@佟晨洁 抖音：@标准佟掌柜 【制作】 番薯剥壳工作室（Yakimo Studio） 【提到的作品】： 《阿德尔曼夫妇 》 《伦敦生活》 神父在婚礼上的致辞： Love is awful. It's painful. It's frightening. Makes you doubt yourself Judge youself Distance yourself from the other people in your life. Makes you selfish Makes you creepy Makes you obsessed with your hair. Makes you cruel. Makes you say and do things you never thought you would do. It's all any of us want and it's hell when we get there So, no wonder, it's something we don't want to do on our own. I was taught if we're born with love, then life is about choosing the right place to put it. People talk about it lot. It "Feeling right, when it feels right it's easy". But l am not sure that's true. It takes strength to know what's right. And love isn't something that weak people do. Being romatic takes a hell of a lot of hope. I think what they means is when you find somebody that you love, it feels like hope.