Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”. Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously...

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's...

Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection. What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving into...

Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring your...

And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves. And remember, never let a...

Hey Besties! It's time for another eye-opening episode with Violetta! We're diving into the complexities of relationships and decoding the male mind. Find out why even when a man takes you for granted, he still craves reassurance from you. Discover the power of non-verbal communication in teaching a man how to treat you right, and why the sexiest thing about you should be your ability to swiftly leave him alone when necessary! Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of girl...

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet? Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed...

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta dives into Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle from “Why Men Love B*tches” by Sherry Argov. Ever wondered why most women crave something from a man that they need to give themselves or where the key is keeping your rhythm intact to avoid creating a void in your life? Learn why lowering yourself to fit his criteria lowers the relationship value and why being the "nice girl" might not always be in your best interest.

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts." Discover how to...

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world. This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being meant for...

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Hey Besties! Welcome to the second week of Benson Bootcamp, a boot camp specifically designed to help you become the best version of yourself, no matter how bad it hurts. It’s called BOOTCAMP for a reason, duh! This week on Almost Adulting we’re having the difficult discussion about boundary setting. Though it may be hard, these realizations will not only be long-lasting, but also help you love yourself a little more. Violet tells an in depth story about her friend who possesses the fatal...

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta spills the secrets to empowering your love life as she unveils how praise is the key to getting your man to treat you like the queen you are. Get ready to make friends with his ego, tapping into his need to feel essential. It's all about setting the tone from the beginning and letting him feel the power of protecting you. Don't waste time and learn the art of giving a man power, making him irresistibly drawn to safeguarding you. By mastering the art of convincing...

Hey Besties! It is the fourth and final installation of Benson Bootcamp, and we’re ending on a note to set you up perfectly for the month of love coming up! This week on Almost Adulting, you and Violet are diving into your divine femininity. What does this mean you ask? The divine feminine is the feminine aspect of the divine power that connects and binds the earth together. It is something we all have within us, and something that if channeled correctly, can open us up to so many things we...

Today, we're picking back up Sherry Argov's "Why Men Love B*tches" book for another session of Benson Book Club. Violetta spills the beans on what men don't want women to know, and trust us, it's juicy! Ever wondered about the two things that can make a man fall madly in love with you? Violetta's got the scoop. And don't miss the attraction principles that explore the delicate dance between waiting for intimacy and creating a spark that goes beyond the physical. Tune in and get ready to...

Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special? In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two...

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew,...

Why do men pull away in relationships? This is a common question that many women ask themselves when their partner begins to withdraw emotionally or physically. While there are many reasons why this may happen, it's important for couples to communicate openly and honestly about their feelings and needs in order to address any issues that may be causing a rift in the relationship. Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind why men pull away, the three steps to deal with the...

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allowing these people to stay in our lives is okay. But it’s okay Besties, we’re gonna get through it together, because we’ve ALL been there. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet starts off with the reasons why we likely...

Hey Besties! Wondering how to snag your dream man? Relationships can be tricky, especially if you're with the wrong person. In this episode, as we dive deeper into our Manifestation month and roll out another edition of the Benson Book Club, we're exploring "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov – a guide for women on standing strong in a relationship. Violetta breaks down the eight attraction principles from the book, giving you a fresh perspective on each one and adding her own spin to what...

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok. In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping...

Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change? In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom...

Welcome to October on Almost Adulting! This month will focus entirely on CULTS - where survivors of various cults will be sharing their stories and bringing awareness to the reality and prominence of these organizations.

Use the angel numbers and manifesting mantras Violetta gives you this episode, to have the 2024 year of your dreams!!!

Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional a*****e, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation. This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you...