It's our last podcast for this series! And we have the lovely Dr Mitchell Tepper from Atlanta in the U.S.  He has a PhD in human sexuality education. He did laboratory based research on pleasure and orgasm in women with spinal cord injury.  But anyone can benefit from his findings, and indeed this podcast - not just those who have SCI's. Listen to Jennie and Dr Tepper discuss many areas of what sex may look like in your relationship.  It might not conform to society's perceptions of sex meaning penetrative sex.  Does that mean you've got a bad sex life? Definitely not!!!   Dr Mitchell Tepper explains the importance of pleasure and intimacy within a relationship, and how they can be brought into a relationship even without a genital focus.  He explains how we are let down by sex education which ignores these factors, concentrating more on reproduction or orgasm. A point to consider before listening to this podcast - is spontaneous sex the most planned sex event ever?!!!  Take a listen ......