Episode 3: What You Don’t Know Until You Do, With Dr Charlotte Tottman: The Showing Up and The Letting Down: Surprises and Disappointments in RelationshipsWe recommend that listeners exercise self-care when listening to the Upfront About Breast Cancer What You Don’t Know Until You Do with Dr Charlotte Tottman podcast, as some may find the content upsetting. Each episode is raw and real and covers a range of topics, some of which may be triggering for people at various stages of their journey. The intention is to have meaningful conversations, present relevant information and provide practical strategies that may help someone or someone you know on their cancer journey. BCNA’s helpline provides a free confidential telephone and email service for people diagnosed with breast cancer, their family and friends. Our experienced team can help with your questions and concerns and direct you to relevant resources and services. Call 1800 500 258 or email [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]).In this episode of What You Don’t Know Until You Do, with Dr Charlotte Tottman, we hear about the surprises and disappointments often experienced at various stages of a breast cancer journey and the expectations we often don’t realise we have of others. Charlotte shares her experience of being surprised and thankful for those who stepped up, as well as her experience of feeling let down by those who disappeared. We also hear about how best to respond to disappointment, recalibrate expectations and how to clearly communicate your emotional and practical needs to those around you.To help us continue to develop our podcasts, we ask for your feedback via our survey. (https://limesurvey.mq.edu.au/index.php/157549?lang=en)Resources:- Sign up to My Journey (https://myjourney.org.au/) and access a range of resources on* Managing support and concern from the people around you (https://myjourney.org.au/article/2185) * Support for you when you are diagnosed with EBC (https://myjourney.org.au/article/2168)- Visit our Online Network (https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/) to connect with people going through a similar experience.Upfront About Breast Cancer is a production of Breast Cancer Network Australia.Our theme music is by the late Tara Simmons, and this episode is proudly brought to you by JT Reid.Produced by Dr Charlotte Tottman and BCNA Engineered and edited by Jane Nield at SEN StudiosVisit our website at www.bcna.org.au/ (https://gate.sc/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bcna.org.au%2F&token=a2153f-1-1633485223847), email us at [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]), or call our Helpline on 1800 500 258 if any of the content in this podcast has raised any concerns or questions.